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Archive for 10/1/09 - 11/1/09

Forgiveness is like a journey, a journey home

A JOURNEY HOME was a very nice movie, which manifested lack of job vacancy in the Philippines, financial crisis, price increase of certain commodities, marriage problems, the virtue of forgiveness, and most of all, the strong faith in God.
Job vacancy in the Philippines


Soliman Cruz, who played the role as Dante Santos, came back to the Philippines from abroad because he was fired in a company located in Taiwan due to the global financial crisis. He was working in three different countries abroad, I can’t remember the other two, but I’m sure that he worked in Taiwan. When he came back to the Philippines, he was jobless. He did his best to find a job but every time he applies in a certain business establishment; they would say that he is overage.


This reflects our country today. There are a lot of people with no jobs. Even a small source of income they don’t have. Last year, I’ve heard that the government was providing 8000 job slots, but only 1000 people were hired because the others were not qualified to work in certain jobs. Job vacancy is a problem, as well as, the deterioration of the number of qualified workers in the country.


Price increase


When Dante was scanning the newspaper, he saw the name of his ex-wife on the obituary page. He remembered his children whom he left and neglected before, because he has another live-in partner. He really is regretting for what he has done, so he planned to visit the wake of his ex-wife.


As he was walking down the road, he stopped by a flower shop, he was asking for the price. Imagine a bunch of flowers that costs 15 pesos near the church, in that flower shop, it costs 150? (asa ka ana? Kamahal!) They have much profit for that! Well, prices in Manila are very high.
Facing the past that was left behind


The act of leaving his family left Dante with no family, no companion, and alone. He wanted to correct his mistakes so he went back to his family and ask for forgiveness.
Joem Bascon, who played the role Raffi, son of Dante, was shocked and angry when Dante came to the wake of his mom. Dante, on the other hand, was just silent. He understood his son’s reaction.


Regret comes last. But in order to heal the wounds, one should face the past. (mao na run.. mayo rako’s sturya)


The broken


Dante’s daughter, Kristie, had this playboy husband who always has another girl with him. Because of God’s grace and God’s help, she was able to forgive her husband. But, his husband is doing it over and over again, that caused her so much pain. Later, she decided to file an annulment case.


This reflects the situation of some of the Filipino couples. Mostly, it’s the husband who tends to find another woman. They are not contented with only one girl. Sad to hear but it’s what’s happening to a lot of couples today.
The lost and the pain

Joem Bascon, was kind of lost because he still can’t forgive what his father has done to them. Later on, he find his way back to his father, but sadly, that time, his father had a stage four cancer.

In the end, he learned to forgive his father.
When Toni Gonzaga, who played the role as Gayle, was 17 years old, and she was pregnant of her first child, Joem left her. She felt an excruciating pain but she learned how to forgive Joem.
Forgiveness is very hard to give especially when the person has done a very bad thing to you. But with God’s grace and God’s love, you can really forgive and forget the sin that that person has ever done to you. Together, you can live happily and it’s as he hasn’t done anything to you at all.

The religion

I’ve never ever seen a film that has Protestant as its religion, only Roman Catholic. The film is also very centered with the teachings of the Bible. This made me idolize it.

The free ticket and free dinner

All in all, I loved the film, people who bought the ticket and the food (dinner) for me. (yes, gilibrihan ko)

everybody commits mistakes

I was just browsing the scanned documents in the PC, and suddenly, I was surprised for seeing my old picture, which was taken when I was still first year. Then, i was the THIN, INNOCENT, smiling vernie.

I never noticed that time was passing by so fast. All I have in mind was to learn and have fun.
My high school years were a bit fun, a bit, because I am still blinded by my mistake in the past that resulted to the cold approach of some of my friends.

I was a CWTS officer, back when I was in fourth year. Maybe you’ll wonder if there is such thing as a CWTS officer when CWTS is just a subject handled by the teacher, as what we have in USC. Yes, it’s CWTS.

As an overview of what OUR CWTS class In UP is, I’ll explain it to you. It embodies the laws of CAT, including the side-step, (hu)manda, harap patalikod and all. So, our CWTS class can be considered an improvised CAT class, but we also do what CWTS classes do, including cleaning the whole campus. It’s kind of weird right? Well, my classmate were complaining why not stick to the real meaning of CWTS and forget about the CAT class laws, but our assistant principal, Ms. Rodel, did not permit it to happen. And by the way, we usually have our CWST during Mondays.

Anyways, back to the topic. Yeah, I lost my friends, lots of them, like almost all. I was a bit harsh to them, teasing them for not performing a drill right, or putting them to shame. I was just doing that because our trainers, back when we had the officers training, were doing that too. I really forgot that they were just our classmates, that being an officer is just a little bit of difference with regards to our ranks, and that I SHOULD LEAD THEM, not tease them or laugh at them.

There was one time when my classmate, I won’t mention her name, cried, because one of my classmates accidentally hit her somewhere, most of my classmates approached and comforted her. She said “I hate you!" Sitting somewhere near the crowd, just to make my classmates laugh, I said, “I haven’t made you cry, have I?”

Unfortunately, the plan of letting my classmates laugh didn’t turn out good. She paused, and said, “You always make me cry. I HATE MONDAYS BECAUSE OF YOU! ” All of a sudden, I was shaking, I really wanted to cry. I wanted to say to her that I was just doing my job as an officer, that it was never my intention to hurt her or something, and that she never knew what it feels to be scolded by our adviser for not being able to control their stubbornness during CWTS session. My eyes, they wanted to release the tears that I am holding back. But then, I stayed calm, composed myself and said in a nice tone, “sorry na gud!”, and I smiled and left the crowd.

I went to the CR and burst out into tears. Then, I started to regret being an officer, a CWTS officer. I lost my friends and their trust.

Every time, we had groupings, I’m always left single-handedly, without anybody wanted to be my group mate, then, one of my classmates, Roel, said, “You have only one friend left in the Alpha Company.” What?! I lost all of the rest?! Like, am I that harsh?! Omegeedd.. Do I still have friends in Bravo? Charlie? Or Delta? This is terrible.

When we had the CWTS culminating activity, I murmured, “No more CTWS. Huhu.” But Krystal heard it and said, “huhu No more power naaa.” WTF! It was a slap in the face! Paet.

Now, everytime one of my friend in the lower years would ask, “Ate Vernie, is it a nice thing to be an officer?” I would reply, “yes, you get to grade your cadets for their performance, you get to command them on what to do,but, sometimes, you’ll lose your friends”
I was very bad. But I don’t care about it because what’s important now is I’m learning from it.
After all, a person can never grow if he didn't commit a single mistake.

USC BSA1- Block b

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